Setting boundaries christian dating
Before you ever have the boundaries conversation with your other half, you need to clearly define your own boundaries.
Once you enter a relationship, well at least once I did, I realized there is a lot more physical interaction between kissing and sex.
I got a “Values Violation” for having my door propped open only 4.5 inches while studying with a female Spanish tutor that I wasn’t the least bit attracted to.
We told each other our physical boundaries and the emotional connections to those choices. That doesn’t mean I knew everything about him; I knew his views on sex.
It was such a relief to have discussed something so vital; it brought us closer. Yet, that is a really important part of someone and it speaks volumes about who they are.
By saving sex for one person, you are essentially saying that you were committed long before the two of you were married.
Purity will strengthen the marital emotional bond and commitment as well.
There are the practical reasons like, avoiding STD’s and unplanned pregnancy, but I believe it is much more than that.