Dating men and what they think
Don’t assume that older men are different than younger men when comes to using women as sex objects.
Don’t be afraid to express your opinions or offer your advice.
But, if he has a psycho ex, do you want to bring that into your life?
If you are drawn to older men for the security they bring, don’t judge him by his expensive suits, watch and nice car.
He can use this knowledge to be a better man for you and he can use it for his own selfish reasons. When your bullshit-ometer goes off, listen to it and call him on it.
Some men like to date younger women because they can be easier to manipulate, but most men will respect a woman who is confident enough to stand up for herself and not put up with his BS.
However, if he is prone to jealousy or possessiveness, this will be a problem (as it would be in any relationship). If he is unable to accept this, move on to a more confident man.